please understand

sometimes i wonder ..

if a woman loves to seize life by horns she seems charming.. like the ignuus fatus..drawing them near like insects to a flame, but when the same woman falls in jeopardy,everyone chants in dreaded unison " she loved to attract trouble"?

People please understand!! its not easy to be a woman... she wants to fly high... all the time trying to curb the fear raised by her physical weakness.. she wants a recognition..... all the time yearning for an approval from within and without.

So you think she is an insecure witch since she wants to drag you into marriage? Why don't you remember what colourful words society has for her just in case you defile her and then decide not to tie her in hymeneal strings..aka marriage...
why don't you remember that while you can pride in calling yourself Casanova and Don Juan...she would rather die than being called a mata hari?
People please understand..if a woman is trying to be brave.. she is not doing it out of love of your attention.. she does it since she wants to set herself free